Larvae; Background (age 0-7)

1. When were you born

2. Who were your parents

3. How were you treated as a child

4. What was your socioeconomic status

5. What were your interests as a child

6. What made you feel safe

7. What were you scared of a child

8. What were you naturally curious about

Pupa; What I was taught (age 7-14)

1. What were the values and pressures placed on you by your parents/ teachers

2. What were you confused about growing up

3. Did you have to hide any parts of your identity

4. Were there any problems you had to overcome

5. What were your strengths/ weaknesses 

6. What did you want to learn

Chrysalis; What I discovered (age 14-21)

1. Was there a crisis; what led to it

2. What were your major goals; have they changed

3. Who was your crowd; has it changed

4. How would you describe your personality

5. Were you ever betrayed 

6. Who/what is your enemy 

Butterfly; Where do I fly (age 21- onward)

1. Who do you want to be

2. Where do you want to live

3. What relationships feel most comfortable to you

4. How are you seen by others

5. How do you identify amongst the crowd (gender/sexuality/personality)

6. Do you struggle with substances 

7. Do you have a diagnosis (do you believe it) 

8. What is love/friendship 

9. What are your likes and dislikes in someone?